A growing trend for first dances is to have it choreographed. This makes a dramatic statement when the couple enters the dance floor for the first time as husband and wife and really show off. It is especially potent when no one knows in advance that the couple can really dance.
You may be thinking that you could never do this, you don’t know how to dance formally. It’s just not taught now-a-days. However, you and your partner can learn to dance. It takes practice, but it can be done, even by people who are not naturally gifted with a sense of rhythm. There are several ways you can learn to dance.
The easiest and most expensive way is to take private dance lessons. You can either take these at a dance studio or some instructors will come to your house. The advantage of having a private instructor is that they can teach you a particular dance that fits your style. They can assess each partners strengths and really work with you to get it right. They can also put together a choreographed dance for you, so you can be as dramatic as you want. They can also teach you the basics of the dance and you can dance freeform. There are many possibilities.
Another way to learn to dance is to look for group classes. Dance studios often offer these and community centers also often offer these. The advantage is that you learn several different dances, and you can determine which one you like. You will not get the individual attention that a private lesson gives and you will be required to switch partners while learning to dance. The advantage to switching partners is that you don’t rely on someone’s “quirks” as cues. For example, if someone always squeezes your hand before they turn their partner, the partner can come to rely on that cue. Group classes are a lot of fun and they are cheaper than private lessons.
If you don’t like the idea of going somewhere to take dance lessons, you can always buy a DVD to teach you the basics of how to dance. This is the most economical route and you can learn in the privacy of your own home.
It’s a lot of fun to learn to dance with your fiancee. Just make sure to keep it fun while you are learning and don’t get frustrated with each other. Take a break if that starts to happen.
